A small city, which is exactly the problem.
Los Alamitos is a twenty-minute drive from the office. For most people who contact me from there, distance was never the question. Being recognized was.
Men who considered driving much further to avoid being seen.
In a city of this size, the calculation people make is not about traffic. It is about whether the person at the next table knows their wife, or coaches their kid, or works two desks over.
That calculation is why a lot of men wait years. So instead of reassuring you vaguely, this page tells you the actual mechanics of how privacy works here, and lets you decide.
The other thing I hear from Los Alamitos is a wish to avoid anything that generates a record. Private pay handles most of that, and the section below says how.
Four mechanics, rather than a reassurance.
You should be able to check these against any other practice you are considering.
Once privacy is settled, this is the actual subject.
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