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San Pedro, California

Across the bridge, in English or in Spanish.

San Pedro is twenty to thirty minutes from the office depending on the bridge. Sessions are available in Spanish, which for some men is the difference between describing the real thing and describing something near it.

Who comes from here

Men from families where this was never a topic.

A large share of what I hear from this side of the harbor involves a family culture where sex, shame and struggle were simply not discussed: sometimes for religious reasons, sometimes because there was no room for it in a working household.

That is not an obstacle to the work. It is part of the material. Men who grew up without language for any of this often make fast progress once someone hands them some, and that is a large part of what the first two months are.

Se habla español. Both individual and couples sessions can be held in Spanish.

A working pier and calm harbor water in morning light
Is this you

Four things men from San Pedro have said in a first call.

San Pedro Questions

Next step

Start with a conversation

A free 15-minute phone consultation is a low-stakes way to hear how I work and ask whatever you need to ask. No commitment, no intake paperwork.