Three people tend to find this practice.
A man who is tired of managing a private life he never chose, straight, gay or bisexual. A couple deciding what happens after trust broke. And the partner who found out, who did not ask for any of this. The work looks different for each.
Pick the one that sounds like your week.
These pages are written for different readers and they say different things. None of them is a summary of the others.
- MenThe man who has never done this before, expects to be judged, and is deciding fast whether this is safe. Straight, gay and bisexual men, in the same practice.Read this one
- CouplesTwo people deciding what happens next, often with one of them further along in wanting it than the other.Read this one
- PartnersThe person who found out. Written to you, not about you, whether or not you ever become a client of mine.Read this one
Four things that are true in every chair in the room.
These do not change with who you are or what you did.
The full list.
The three pages above are the adult work. Alongside them I also see teenagers, with a parent or guardian involved throughout, separate work, on ordinary adolescent territory rather than anything on the adult side of this practice.
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